Balancing Family Life Between Yourself And Your Elders

I’m still at the Hostel Euphoria in Tallinn, Estonia, and last night was Open Mic night again. Last week, I told Cosmic Stories but we returned to Cosmic Questions from the audience this time. The title question is #5, so keep reading.

1. WHAT IS THE FUNCTION OF EACH PERSON’S INNER VOICE? AND, DO ALL PEOPLE HAVE THIS CAPACITY?

“Oh, My God, Linda Layli, Layli Linda! Ever since Man came to the planet, humankind has had a latent ability to communicate Innerly; often horizontally, person to person. Very soon, though, as their lives became more and more material, thought-messages gave way to verbalized communication and the five other senses replaced the more subtle versions of idea-interchange. You might think in terms of Inner Hearing, rather than Inner Speaking, as that receiving tool must be active before Inner Speaking, or an Inner Voice, could be applicable. So, let’s think in terms of your “Receiver,” your Hearing Channel, before we even open the question of an Inner Voice among living people on this planet.

If you are a simple radio receiver, you must first be plugged-in and then, turned on. But, you require a broadcast from a Radio Station before sound can be produced. The situation on this planet now, is that a few pieces of receiving equipment might have those prerequisites to pick up sound, but they may become frightened or stumped by what is going on. So is their audience! After much experimentation, fine-tuning, and practice, some people might become comfortable with the strange results. So, ears get slowly developed to receive.

But, proof can’t be shared easily, except by word-of-mouth-reporting. For the time being, this Stage One Status requires a powerful Sender from a Higher Realm, simply to get through at all.

As far as an Inner Voice coming from the earth human, that’s only useful for a Hearer to communicate with an Upper One, speaking to them over their own, opened listening channel and this is encouraged.”

2. CAN YOU GIVE US PROOF THAT THE INNER SPEAKER IS ACTUALLY A SEPARATE ENTITY?

“No, We can’t prove it, since no one else hears it but the Receiver. Plus, the capacity of the Hearer to explain and express what is being told will radically affect the impression of others. “Content” is about the only distinctive feature and so much depends upon understanding and how the subject is captured. You use writing; others try to speak the words that they hear as they are received. Only if they can be captured as delivered (by writing or recording) can they be fairly-evaluated. And remember, any incident is likely to be fleeting and conversational, rather than studied or deliberate; simply because of this impromptu nature.”

3. CAN YOU PROVE YOURSELF SEPARATE?

“Only to the one who hears, and until they become convinced, not even to them. At this point, there is no Science to this, only hearsay. Unless Medicine decides to record brain waves and show that they don’t originate in that local mind.”

4. HOW CAN AN INDIVIDUAL DEAL WITH THE FEAR OF LOSING LOVED ONES?

“This is Earth’s lesson in Detachment! Fear is always a crippling force within the human emotional range. So, if you are clinging to those who are closest to you; if you are dependent upon them to the point that you would fail, in some systemic way, then you cannot either help them in the event of loss, or prevent that loss from happening.

You are correct in the wording of this question. It is always your own fear which you must overcome, rather than the loss, itself. Tackle your fear first! And then, the loss, as painful as it may be, will not disable you. If the loss comes in the form of “Death,” then you need to examine your attitude concerning death; not that inevitability, itself.”

5. WHERE IS THE BALANCE BETWEEN ADULT CHILD AND PARENT LOYALTY, AND THE NEED TO DEVELOP ONE’S OWN PERSONAL LIFE AND DIRECTION?

“Okay, this is a wonderful question because it is fundamental to decisions about family structure, duties and participation. Every single situation is unique, so one rule of thumb won’t suffice. But, this is a lifelong equation and not something that hits people when their parents grow elderly and dependent. That balance is equally important when the Mom and Dad divide their time with duties to their children, work, each other, and their own elderly in each generation.

Developing a “Community” in every family, where each member cares more about the welfare of the others than their own self; fosters an attitude of helping each other to succeed, instead of expecting all to rush to fulfill their own needs.

Abandonment of Self in service to others is not the answer! Nor is the abandonment of your loved ones for your own wishes!

Fortunately, life morphs and dynamics change, so things don’t remain static. Heartfelt consultation and imaginative willingness to work on behalf of each, often strengthens the whole for future crisis and emergencies, as well as blessings!”

About Linda J. Brown

Linda is a solo around the world traveler, having slowly explored the world's two hemispheres. A third trip around the equator has just begun, planned to last at least four years. After living for a year in the spiritual and beautiful town of Santa Fe, New Mexico, she has transferred to the beautiful and spiritual town of San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. Feeling honored that the mysterious Hurricane Patricia paid her a call during her first week; she is none-the-less, eternally-grateful that this "worst hurricane in human history" decided to leave the planet alone, after all.
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